I have read over the past several days about facebook and their turning evil. It is all the hype nowadays to say that a company has gone evil when it wants to support hundreds of workers and realizes it needs money to do that, but I digress. There are several articles on it. One from wired, a couple at EFF.org here and here, and one in PC World. While I agree that facebook has changed their privacy policy, wrongfully so I might add, and that they should also set the defaults to share as little as possible to keep face with their old policies, I don’t think it should or will cause the mighty social network uprising everyone is demanding.
Now in response to these changes there have been complaints to the FTC about facebooks stuff, but this will not cause an uprising, it may cause facebook to change some of the defaults that you find in privacy stuff. Nothing more.
The reality is that when you have put something out on the internet you have, in effect, released it at large. This is regardless of whether it is on facebook or not. This is also my complaint about people that privatize their blog so that Russians don’t take pictures of their kids and put it on a billboard. The reality is that any, and I mean ANY information you share with someone, even your closest friend, is bound to get out. It goes back to my old adage: you can get away with anything as long as you keep your mouth shut.
Lets think about this. How many times have you said something to someone in confidence and then four to six months later someone is asking you how that went. Even when you verbally share information with close friends it gets leaked out. Why would sharing your blog, or anything else for that matter, be any different?
My rule of thumb on facebook, don’t share stuff you care gets out. I don’t care if people know that I live in North Salt Lake. I don’t care if people know that I work for Larkin’s. I do care if they know what I have for dinner every night, or what I am thinking at any given moment, or any of the other stupid things I see as ‘status updates’. Don’t post what you don’t want shared. Don’t post pictures you don’t want shared. Remember, you can get away with anything as long as you keep your mouth shut.